1000 Questions for Couples

The 1000 Questions for Couples sales page, captured 2026-09-23

1000 Questions for Couples review

A thousand ready made questions for couples who have run out of things to talk about

Category Self-Help

By the RJ Editorial Team. Sales page checked 2026-09-23. Last updated 2026-09-23.

Is it worth it?

You know the silence. Not the comfortable kind, the one where you're both on your phones at nine at night and neither of you can think of anything to say that isn't logistics. Or you're four months into something new, you like them, and you have no real idea what you're walking into. That's the gap this aims at. It's a list of 1,000 questions, grouped by theme, that you work through with someone. Money, family, kids, faith, sex, old hurts, what you want in ten years. Nobody does all 1,000. The point is having them on your phone so you can pull out five on a long drive. The page leans hard on Arthur Aron's 36 questions study and the New York Times piece that made it famous. That study is real, but this isn't it. It's a much longer list inspired by it, and the claim that the 1,000 were "scientifically collected" is the seller's, with nothing on the page to back it. Judged as what it actually is, a well sorted pile of conversation starters, it earns its keep. Most couples aren't short on feeling, they're short on prompts, and the awkward questions are the ones nobody raises unprompted. If it gets you two good evenings of real talking, it has paid for itself.

Pros

  • One off payment, nothing recurring
  • Instant download, usable the same evening
  • Sorted by topic so you can pick what fits the moment
  • Works for new couples, long distance and long marriages alike

Cons

  • It's a question list, not guidance on what to do when an answer stings
  • The page never states the price, file format or page count
  • Only works if both of you actually sit down and play along

What you get

A digital book of 1,000 questions, sorted into topic sections so you can jump to money, family, intimacy, beliefs or future plans rather than reading front to back. It downloads straight after payment, usually as a PDF you can read on a phone, tablet or print. No physical copy, no app, no coaching, and nothing to cancel later since it's a one off payment.

Before you buy

  • Check the stated refund window at checkout before paying
  • Ask your partner first, this falls flat if it's sprung on them
  • Skim free lists of Aron's 36 questions to see if you even enjoy the format

Who it suits

Couples who still like each other but have stopped having real conversations, and anyone wanting the awkward compatibility questions asked early

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