Dirty Talk Secrets review
Finding words for sex with your partner without feeling stupid saying them
By the RJ Editorial Team. Sales page checked 2026-09-23. Last updated 2026-09-23.
Is it worth it?
Most people looking at something like this aren't in a crisis. They're in a rut. You love your partner, the sex is fine, but it's quiet, and you've had a thought in the moment and swallowed it because it felt like it would land wrong. Or you tried once, got a strange look, and never went near it again. That's the gap this aims at. It's less a script than a graded set of phrases with the reasoning behind them: why timing matters, how tone does more work than vocabulary, and how to start soft and move toward explicit at whatever pace you can stand. It covers texts and emails too, which is honestly the easier place to begin, because you get to edit before you send. The sales page leans hard on one long story about a text that reduced the author to jelly. Read that as advertising. What you're actually buying is vocabulary and permission, and the permission is the bigger half. Nobody's bad at this because they don't know the words. They're bad at it because they feel self conscious saying them out loud. Worth it if you'll actually try something in the next week or two. Not worth it if you buy it and never open it, which is the usual fate of guides like this one.
Pros
- Starts gentle and builds, so you're not thrown in at the deep end
- Covers delivery and timing, not just a list of lines
- The text and email sections are an easy, low risk place to start
- Both perspectives covered, so you can hand it to your partner too
Cons
- Page never says the price, the format or how long it is
- Reading it changes nothing on its own, you have to actually say something
- Big emotional promises in the sales copy are the seller's claims, not evidence of anything
What you get
A downloadable guide to sexy talk from Michael Webb. Inside: phrases graded from mild to explicit, advice on delivery and timing rather than just wording, confidence work for people who freeze up, sample texts and emails, lines for when one of you is travelling, and both a male and a female take on what actually lands. The page doesn't state length or format.
Before you buy
- Check the price and the refund window on the checkout page before you pay
- Confirm it's an instant download you can read privately, not something posted to you
- Think about whether your partner would welcome this, or whether the real conversation needs to come first
Who it suits
Couples who are comfortable together but have gone quiet in bed, and one of you wants to change that without a big awkward conversation
