The New Rules of Dating (Unlock Her Legs) review
A video course for men who feel modern dating changed while they weren't looking
By the RJ Editorial Team. Sales page checked 2026-09-23. Last updated 2026-09-23.
Is it worth it?
You're matching, sending messages, and then it goes quiet. Or you've been out of the game a while and the whole thing looks nothing like you remember. That's the headspace this is pitched at: straight men who feel like the rules changed and nobody sent them the memo. What it actually is: a long video presentation leading to a private video built around four ideas. One rule about how casual dating supposedly works now, five common mistakes that make you look clueless or inexperienced, three steps for meeting women, and a psychological tactic for getting someone to commit. It comes from the Unlock Her Legs people, so the tone is blunt and squarely aimed at men. Adult language, 18 and over. Take the promises as the seller's promises. Lines about her chasing you like a rock star, or banishing other men from her life, are sales copy, not results anyone can guarantee. Where something like this genuinely helps is quieter: it hands you a starting script, a bit of nerve, and permission to stop rewriting the same message nine times. If you currently have none of that, it isn't nothing. The thing the page doesn't put in front of you is that this bills on a recurring basis, and no price is shown. Find both out before you enter a card.
Pros
- Gives you something concrete to try rather than vague advice
- Low cost next to coaching or therapy
- Aimed at a specific problem, not general life advice
- Confidence and a script are genuinely useful if you have neither
Cons
- Recurring billing, so it's a subscription and not a one-off
- No price, runtime or format stated anywhere on the page
- Promises about women chasing you and committing for good are unevidenced sales claims
- Heterosexual men only, and the framing is crude in places
What you get
A long sales video leading into the private video it advertises, covering the one rule of hookup culture, five dating mistakes and how to undo them, three steps for meeting women now, and a psychological tactic aimed at getting a woman to commit. The page never states the runtime, the format, or whether any of it comes as text you can reread.
Before you buy
- Find the rebill amount and how often it charges before entering card details
- Check the refund window and exactly how you cancel the recurring part
- Be honest about whether you want dating skills or something more like confidence work
Who it suits
Straight men who've been out of dating a while and want a clear starting playbook, provided they're fine with blunt, salesy framing and a subscription
