The Say This To Men sales page, captured 2026-09-23
Say This To Men review
Word-for-word scripts for talking to men so what you say actually lands
By the RJ Editorial Team. Sales page checked 2026-09-23. Last updated 2026-09-23.
Is it worth it?
You say something, he goes quiet or defensive, and the same conversation happens again next week. Or you're dating and the chat fizzles and you can't tell why. That's the ache this is aimed at, and it's a real one. Say This To Men is Marni Kinrys's communication programme. Her background is coaching men on dating, which is the genuinely useful angle here: she's spent years hearing how men describe conversations that went wrong, and the product is essentially that translated into phrasings you can try. The practical core is scripts. Instead of 'you never listen', something framed so he doesn't hear an attack and shut down. That's standard, sensible communication advice dressed up in 'alpha code' language, and it does help plenty of people. Be clear-eyed about the sales page though. It promises transformation overnight, a man bending over backwards, a better sex life. Those are the seller's promises, offered without anything behind them, and no script fixes a relationship where the other person isn't interested in repairing it. It also treats men as one type, which won't fit everyone. What you're really buying is a nudge to change how you open difficult conversations, plus some confidence. At this price that's reasonable value. Just go in knowing it's a set of phrases to practise, not a repair kit.
Pros
- Low entry price for something you can try tonight
- Concrete wording rather than vague advice about communicating better
- Written by someone who's spent years coaching men, so the perspective is first-hand
- Works whether you're single or years into a relationship
Cons
- The page promises overnight transformation and a better sex life with nothing to back it up
- Talks about men as a single type, so some of it will not fit your particular man
- Doesn't say what you actually receive, how long it is, or what format it's in
- It's you doing all the adapting; a one-sided fix only goes so far
What you get
Instant digital access rather than anything posted out. The page doesn't itemise the contents, so expect guides you read online or download. The substance is Marni Kinrys's scripts: what she calls the alpha code, meaning specific words and phrasings for getting a man to listen, for raising a problem without a row, and for starting conversations if you're single. It's sold as a low-price entry with a subscription attached.
Before you buy
- This is a subscription, not a one-off. Check the order form for what recurs, how much, and when the first charge lands
- Find the refund window and the cancellation link before you pay, and note them somewhere
- Expect upsells after checkout. Decide beforehand that the low entry price is all you're spending
Who it suits
Women who feel unheard and want practical wording to try, and who are fine with a self-help read rather than proper couples work
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